A cave on Mount Horeb
The prophet Elijah is afraid, exhausted, and asking God to let him die.6 He walks for forty days to Mount Horeb and shelters in a cave.7
A great wind tears at the rocks, “but the Lord is not in the wind.”8 Then an earthquake, then fire, and the Lord is not in them.9 Then, “a whistling of a gentle air.”10
God came. But not in the way that would have been impossible to ignore.
01The objection
At full strength
If a loving God wanted a relationship with every person, surely he would make himself unmistakable. Yet many sincere, thoughtful people look and do not find him. Isn’t that exactly what we would expect if no one is there?
“Verily thou art a hidden God, the God of Israel the saviour.”
The Bible does not avoid the problem. It names it.
One of the sharpest minds of the 17th century made the hiddenness of God part of his case for faith.
02Pascal
Partly hidden, partly revealed
“If there were no obscurity, man would not be sensible of his corruption; if there were no light, man would not hope for a remedy.”
Pascal went further: “every religion which does not affirm that God is hidden, is not true.”11
But why hide at all? The Church’s answer is about freedom.
03Freedom
Invited, never forced
The Church teaches that “man’s response to God by faith must be free.” Christ invited people to faith and conversion, but never coerced them.3
In words taken from the First Vatican Council, it teaches that God “can be known with certainty from the created world by the natural light of human reason.”2 And it admits honestly that people meet many difficulties in coming to know God by reason alone.12
That answers the theory. It does not answer the person who looked and heard nothing.
04Silence
If you looked and heard nothing
Some people did everything this site would suggest. They read, prayed, went to church and asked sincerely, and heard nothing. That is a real result. It deserves to be taken as one, not explained away with a hint that they must have done it wrong.
The Church’s own saints describe the same thing. St John of the Cross wrote of faithful people who fear they are lost on the road, “thinking that all spiritual blessing is over for them and that God has abandoned them since they find no help or pleasure in good things.”13
Mother Teresa of Calcutta lived with what the Holy See’s biography calls “a deep, painful and abiding feeling of being separated from God, even rejected by Him.” It began around the time she started her work for the poor and continued to the end of her life. She called it “the darkness.”4
The Catechism names this dryness, when the heart has no taste even for spiritual things, and calls it “the moment of sheer faith clinging faithfully to Jesus in his agony and in his tomb.”5
“And about the ninth hour, Jesus cried with a loud voice, saying: Eli, Eli, lamma sabacthani? That is, My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken me?”
None of this proves that God is there. It shows something narrower and still important: in the Church’s own tradition, silence is not treated as proof that the person seeking was insincere, or lazy, or unwanted.
Hidden is not the same as absent.
05The other side
Hidden, but calling
“God calls man first,” the Catechism says. Man may forget his Creator or accuse him of having abandoned him, “yet the living and true God tirelessly calls each person.”15 The desire for God is written in the human heart, and God never ceases to draw people to himself.16
On Horeb, the gentle air was followed by a voice: “What dost thou here, Elias?” It is a fair question to be asked.
Careful with the facts
Christian to Christian
If you have looked and found silence, that is a real experience, and nothing here suggests you did it wrong. Some of the Church’s greatest saints knew that silence for years.
Only one thing to do
Your one next step
Find five quiet minutes, phone away. If you can, say honestly: “If you are there, help me to see you.” Then just notice what comes, without forcing anything, and without grading yourself if nothing does.
How to talk to God, if you are not sure he is thereKeep going
Notes
- Isaias 45:15, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 36. vatican.va
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 160. vatican.va
- Mother Teresa of Calcutta (1910-1997), biography published by the Holy See for her beatification. vatican.va. vatican.va
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 2731. vatican.va
- 3 Kings 19:3-4, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- 3 Kings 19:8-9, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- 3 Kings 19:11, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- 3 Kings 19:11-12, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- 3 Kings 19:12, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- Blaise Pascal, Pensées (published 1670). trans. W. F. Trotter, Project Gutenberg eBook 18269. gutenberg.org
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 37. vatican.va
- St. John of the Cross, The Dark Night of the Soul, Book I, ch. 10 (c. 1584). trans. E. Allison Peers, CCEL (short quotation). ccel.org
- Matthew 27:46, Douay-Rheims. read the chapter
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 2567. vatican.va
- Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 27. vatican.va
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