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Parish OCIA kit · For sponsorsA guide for sponsors
Walking beside someone who is becoming Catholic.
In short. A sponsor helps an adult through Christian initiation and then helps them live the Christian life.1
What a sponsor is
- Church law describes the sponsor as someone who “assists an adult in Christian initiation”.1
- The sponsor also helps the newly baptized person lead a Christian life in keeping with Baptism.1
- Godparents must be “firm believers, able and ready to help the newly baptized” on the road of Christian life.2
- Their task is a truly ecclesial function, a service on behalf of the whole Church.2
Who can be a sponsor
- Is chosen by the person to be baptized, or by the pastor if needed, and is willing and able to do this.3
- Has completed the sixteenth year of age, unless the diocesan bishop has set another age or the pastor grants an exception for a just cause.3
- Is a Catholic who has been confirmed, has received the Eucharist and leads a life of faith in keeping with the role.3
- Is not under a canonical penalty and is not the parent of the person.3
- A baptized Christian of another community may take part only as a witness, together with a Catholic sponsor.3
- For Confirmation it is appropriate that the sponsor be one of the baptismal godparents.4
Each week, simply
- Read the lesson before the session. The code on each handout opens it.
- Go to Sunday Mass together when you can, and sit with them.
- Pray for them by name every day.
- Ask one honest question after each session: what stayed with you, what was hard?
- When you do not know an answer, say so, and look it up together in the Catechism.
- Introduce them to people in the parish.
If they are unsure
- The faith asked for at Baptism is not a perfect and mature faith, but a beginning that is called to develop.5
- Faith needs the community of believers: it is within the faith of the Church that each believer can believe.5
Remember: You are not the teacher. You are a friend who walks alongside and prays. Your parish’s OCIA team leads the process and sets the schedule.